Love Dynamics Concept: High Status
High status as it relates to love dynamics means that a manhas access to optionality & ubiquitous sex, acts on his own intentionality and is unreactive to external forces acting upon him.
High Status Mindset & Identity:
It is absolutely essential for the male to do the work on mindset & identity to transition from beta (needy & supplicating) to alpha (non-needy) (Models, Manson). This means moving from low status to high status. High status men integrate with and display the masculine personality and thus gain access to ubiquitous sex. They fulfill their wildest dreams for their lovelives. Changing your mindset & identity begins with knowledge. Knowledge of Love Dynamics, the topic of this book.
High Status Men & Earned Virtue:
High status men (alphas) that have access to ubiquitous sex do not assume virtue onto girls unearned. Earned virtue is femininity and feminine behavior. Since they have access to optionality regarding sexual partners, high status men develop a challenging unattached personality aka the masculine personality that does not supplicate or certainty seek. They enjoy qualifying girls and do not develop oneitis for girls by projecting virtue onto them unearned. Alphas live in alignment with justice (the earned principle) by not assuming virtue onto girls unearned. Beauty is common and not earned virtue.
Low Status Men & Assumed Virtue Unearned:
Low status men (betas) that do not have access to ubiquitous sex go around assuming virtue on girls unearned simply based upon her looks. They assume virtue on her, develop oneitis for her if she shows him any attention and then orbits around her. This leads to suffering and more scarcity.Betas live out of alignment with justice (the earned principle) and assume virtue onto girls unearned. Since they do not have access to ubiquitous sex, to them, beauty is scarce. He projects virtue onto her simply as a function of her looks.
The Flow of Beta to Alpha in Western Dating:
1. Stop chasing Western girl culturally and opened new relationship cycles (i.e. opening new girls)
2. Increase optionality led to ubiquitous sex
3. Ubiquitous sex led to the masculine personality and status with the ability to break rapport (active disinterest or active demonstration of non-neediness to convey access to optionality) rather than seek it
4. This in addition to preselection led to her chasing and seducing you
5. Realize that her having sex with you is an alpha test. You pass the alpha test by not seeking monogamy with her after having sex with her but simply remaining congruent with the alpha or masculine personality.
6. Remaining unattached to the outcome of exclusivity, allowing her to earn you every day via feminine virtue which spikes the emotional charge and thus attraction for you since you are aligned with the justice principle and thus high status.
The High-Status Man & Closing
Men of status don’t try to close before it is closeable. Focus instead on creating an emotional charge (i.e. polarity) and simply enjoy the uncertainty of stoking that. Polarity comes with edge or breaking rapport rather than seeking it. Once the emotional charge is sufficient, the incremental closes will flow naturally.
Michael Herlache MBA
Michael is the founder of the Love Dynamics body of knowledge that bridges the gap from selection & attraction to passion in relationship. His previous career was in Lower Middle Market M&A with AltQuest Group and is now a strategic technology sales Account Executive. He has an MBA from Texas A&M University and is married to the love of his life, Svitlana.
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